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Sat nam group!

Thank you for the personal post and I think it’s a great topic for the group.

I too am going through this change and welcome all the contrast it brings.

I started down this path 2 years ago.. my 2nd chakra was very over active and was so for as long as I can remember.

I am recently single again and find the old thoughts of sex and what I used to do, say and feel about it not so appealing anymore. Guy friends are encouraging me to get back out there and have some fun and I kindly tell them where I am at and they just shrug there shoulders

I do want the pleasure of a intimate relationship though, just not focused as much on the act of intercourse.. And most men are all to focused on that anyway. .There is so much more to sensuality than that. .

I do agree with the “travelers” reply. The 10 / 90 % ratio is interesting.. and we are not munks.. My previous partner was so much in her 6 and 7th chakras we had a very hard time communicating and being together.

I heard a Yogi Bhajan lecture (KY - the Yoga of awareness) and he said “if you grip is sensuality you are in trouble, doing a lot of damage to your own body mind and soul.” In Guru Rattanas book “spirituality and Sexuality” Yogi Bhajan gives a wonderful treatise on physical pleasure -on how a man should please his partner..

So to me its about balance and where I am at, where I came from, and where I want to go. albeit do it slowly, wit awareness, non judgment towards myself and anyone I become intimate with in the future.

I think the reply from “Op” was beautiful and I hope one day to feel as she describes with a wonderful partner by my side to share this and the physical intimacy with too.

Maybe talk to the boyfriend from the heart and see what comes of it with a neutral mind..

Are there any men out there that have gone through what she and I are experienced and can they ad to the discussion please?

Sat nam,

Marty / Sarobjot Singh, in Charlotte yahoo.com> wrote: Sat nam everyone, I am just finishing teacher training and I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend (whom I adore) … My outlook on sex has completely changed and find the old ways vibrating on a very low consciousness. My playful sexiness is gone and feel I am humbly above that. The act of traditional ways seem so animalistic and just NOT me anymore. My boyfriend on the other hand is not on the fast track like myself. Is this common when you make this transition into this lifestyle? Are there any books or links someone can recommend me reading. I am very curious as to what the master has to say within the sikh and sutra guidelines.
Thank you,